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Meditation for Ashley Hope Barrett

John Piper

October 28, 1995

Romans 14:7-9  For none of us lives to himself alone and none of us dies to himself alone. 8) If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord.  So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.  9) For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be Lord of both the dead and the living.

Is Ashley hope included in this promise?  Notice the “we” in verse 8.  It is Christians – people who embrace and do not reject the death and resurrection of Jesus as their ground of life and hope.  

Does that include Ashley?  Twelve hours old.  Not able with her mind to construe the gospel or anything else.  And so not able to mentally respond to the truth of Christ?

  Key questions:

Is it God’s way to execute judgment upon those who, while guilty in Adam (Romans 5), do not yet have experiential access to the light of the glory of God?

To ask it another way:  even though we believe that all children come into the world with a sinful nature and, in one sense, are under the curse of the law because of the fall of humanity into sin, does God carry through the execution of his judgment on persons apart from their own personal, experiential rebellion against the revelation of his glory?

  And I have in mind of course little children who do not yet have the natural, mental capacity to understand the revelation of God’s glory either in the gospel or in nature.

My answer to the question is based on a biblical principle found in several texts.

For example, Jesus says in John 9:41 to those who were offended at his teaching and asked if he thought they were blind—he said, “If you were blind, you would not have had sin; but since you say, ‘We see,’ your sin remains.”

In other words, if a person lacks the natural capacity to see the revelation of God’s will or God’s glory then that person’s sin would not remain—God would not bring the person into final judgment for not believing what he had no natural capacity to see. 

The other text is Romans 1:20 where Paul is dealing with persons who have not heard the gospel and have no access to it, but who do have access to the revelation of God’s glory in nature: 

Romans 1:20 “Since the creation of the world God’s invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse.

In other words:  if a person did not have access to the revelation of God’s glory – did not have the natural capacity to see it and understand it, then Paul implies they would have an excuse at the judgment.

The point for us is that even though we human beings are under the penalty of everlasting judgment and death because of the fall of our race into sin and the sinful nature that we all have, nevertheless God only executes this judgment on those who have the natural capacity to see his glory and understand his will, and refuse to embrace it as their treasure. 

Infants like Ashley Hope, I believe, do not yet have that capacity; and therefore, in God’s inscrutable way, he has brought Ashley under the forgiving blood of his Son.

She is included in the “we” of Romans 14:8

Verse 8:  “If we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord.” 

So Ashley died to the Lord.  For her that couldn’t mean, as it can for us, that she consciously glorified the Lord by trusting and treasuring the Lord in her dying.  But it could mean, and did mean, that she died for the Lord’s sake.  IN her dying something was experienced from the Lord which would otherwise not have been experienced, and which causes us to thank the Lord and trust the Lord and love the Lord more because of it.  She did not die in vain.  She died to the Lord—her dying had to do with the Lord.  It was for the Lord’s sake.

She didn’t just die with reference to herself, or with reference to us, though we wish that here life were in her still and that she were with us still.  But we are not the main actors here.  God is.  She died to the Lord.

Then Paul says (v. 8b-9),

“So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.  9) For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be Lord of both the dead and the living.”

And so we learn that Ashley is the Lord’s.  She belongs to the Lord.  “Whether we live or die we belong to the Lord.”  As Paul says elsewhere, “We have been bought with a price and we are not our own” (1 Cor. 6:19-20).  And the price was his own death and resurrection.

When we repeat the words from Job 1:21, “The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away,” we should remember that when the Lord takes his children, he does not just take “away,” he takes to himself.  Do you hear that in these verses?

So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.  9) For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be Lord of both the dead!

So these two things we may say: Ashley died not just to herself, but to the Lord—for his sake—to bring something of him into our experience that would not otherwise have been there—for us to know and trust and love and treasure.

Secondly, Ashley belongs to the Lord first and not to us.  He died and lived again that he might own her and be her Lord.  And he is. 

Now I close with one other question.  Why a mere nine month life in the womb and a twelve hour life in this world?

Let me give you the answer of Marshall Shelley.

On November 22, 1991 his son was born at 8:20 PM.  At 8:22 his son died—a chromasonal defect, Trisomy 13—no known cause.  “As far as I was concerned, it was a design flaw and the Designer was directly responsible.”

Three months after his son’s death, his daughter, Mandy, who was severely retarded, died, two weeks short of her second birthday.

He asked, Why did God design a child to live for two minutes—and two years?

Answer:  “Why did God create a child to live two minutes?  He didn’t.  He did not create Mandy to live two years.  He did not create me to live 40 years…God created [my son] for eternity.  He created each of us for eternity, where we may be surprised to find our true calling, which always seemed just out of reach here on earth.” 

James says, “You do not know what your life will be like tomorrow.  You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away.” 

We see Ashley’s life as a vapor.  James says our lives are a vapor.  Because when measured against eternity—where we will all live—the difference between her life and ours is infinitesimal.

When Marshall’s baby boy was born, they handed him to Susan, and they watched him turn from pink to blue and stop breathing.  The nurse asked, “Do you have a name for your baby?”  And Susan looked up and said, “Toby.  It’s short for Tobiah, which means, God is good.”

Sort of like the nurse saying on Thursday morning at Children’s Medical Center, “What’s her name?” And Jan saying, “Ashley HOPE.”

Marshall summed up his answer to the alumni:  Life is hard and God is good.

I would only add:  life is short—two minutes, twelve hours, two years, 50 years—it’s short.  And eternity is long.  Let’s get ready.  Christ died and rose again that he might be Lord of the dead and the living—forever.  Let’s trust him.  And use our days for his glory. 

Let’s be little children; in many ways just like Ashley Hope. 

 

Copyright by John Piper 1995, Desiring God Ministries.